verbalobe ([info]pilgrim_eye) wrote,
@ 2008-04-26 14:17:00
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Synchronicity
We strike out on the first of what we hope will be two or three walks today -- it's 11:30 and still just early enough and cool enough to qualify as "beating the heat." The birds and the bees are out, kids on trikes, puppies on leashes, it's a gorgeous Saturday morning in spring.

We've gone several hundred yards -- barely a sixth of the route -- and the conversation has already veered and branched several times, from our gardening plans, to the weather forecast, to Scrabblesomething about Living with Purpose, when Marsh pulls me back a couple of paces to observe a flying insect on a railing.

"This one's blue," she says, and as I watch, the plain black thing takes flight revealing a shimmering teal body, and is gone.

"Cool!" I say.

"We didn't bring a jar," she says. We've been trying to collect bugs to add variety to Bambi the chameleon's diet, and save on trips to PetCo for crickets. Crickets bore Bambi. I'd even ordered a butterfly net earlier in the week, knowing that we could harvest many, many grasshoppers in the wild later in the season. We don't know if Bambi will like grasshoppers, but we're always thinking.

"I know," I say, "and the butterfly net didn't come yet. When it does, I'll look like a supreme dork." I pantomime an Edwardian gentleman, pirouetting as I swoop an imaginary butterfly net. Marsh laughs, charitably. (I'm actually an old and rusty pro with an insect net, but that's another story.)

As we're laughing dorkily, I spy the mail truck careening into the neighborhood. In the time it takes me to register its arrival, in the time it takes me to start to feel embarrassed that our mailman has seen me dancing like a loon, the little white van has swerved over to the curb and stopped opposite us. The lovely mailman -- is he Pakistani? Yemeni? Algerian? I cannot tell -- says to us, to me, "Mr. Van Pelt?"

"Yes?"

He's smiling, he enjoys his work, he enjoys knowing the real people behind the thousands of numbered slots and lockboxes. "I have a package for you today, I can give it now." He reaches beside his seat, next to heaps, mounds of trays and bundles of sorted mail, and pulls out a shipping box, bigger than a book but smaller than a breadbox, not heavy.

I'm thinking, as I'm sure Marsh is, do we want to carry a box all the way around with us, on our walk? He has handed it to me, he senses our hesitation. "It's okay -- I can leave it down there," he offers, nodding toward the mailboxes.

"No, no," I say. "It's fine, it's great, we'll take it. Thank you!" I turn to Marsh. "It's the butterfly net."

"You had ordered the net," you may say. "Its arrival was imminent. This was no coincidence." Even so, it's impossible to convey the feeling of unlikelihood in that moment. We unpacked and assembled the net as we continued our walk, and marveled at the universe.


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[info]listeme
2008-04-26 10:25 pm UTC (link)
The thing is -- and there are several -- this is not a homey little neighborhood where everyone knows everyone and the mailman sees us every day when he delivers. He puts the mail into little slots, by number, from behind the pedestals. We have met him maybe three times. And yet, he knows us and associates us with slot seven on the pedestal, and with our names, and with our faces.

The thing is that I had just been yammering on about how if I were in charge of educating all the kids on the planet, I would make sure that each of them were asked to stop and think sometimes, to stop and think things like "why are you here? Do you have a purpose? Do you have YOUR OWN purpose?" I had said something like "I love the name of that awful book, The Purpose-Driven Life." I hate the author's philosophies and love the title.

The thing is that I feel most human when I'm most in my animal element, and there I was in the absolute gorgeousness of the day, communicating about bugs and purposes, and the mailman just maybe loves what he is doing and feels at his most human when he is making connections.

Edited at 2008-04-26 10:28 pm UTC

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[info]jigsawn
2008-04-28 02:19 am UTC (link)
Great story! Thanks for sharing it.

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[info]117th_of_locar
2008-04-28 08:45 pm UTC (link)
Out of curiosity, can we arrange a butterfly-net-picture-posting?
Also: did you catch anything with it, or just assemble it on the walk?

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[info]pilgrim_eye
2008-04-29 12:37 am UTC (link)
See latest post.

When we got home, I caught two butterflies, released one and fed the second to the chameleon. The chameleon seemed to enjoy it :-)

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